Monday 25 February 2013

This Woman Needs to Get Pregnant: "I Am Crying As I’m Writing"


She forwarded this message to 247infogists.blogspot.com after her life has been made miserable my her husband's family, mother in-law and sisters in-law, due to her lack of child. Please help her:
Help me to post this. My messiah may come from your friends. My real name is Uju, I married 17yrs ago. Years of suffering, fasting, praying, mocking, crying, taking tablet and injection both local and native ones. 
I got married at the age of 17 that was 1996, I was a virgin then and I couldn't proceed for further education and that was the same year I lost my brave daddy....


I married an only son with eight (8) sisters, I was warmly welcome to the family. Within a year, I couldn't conceive we both went to hospital, after running some test I was told that we are both medically ok but can't still conceive. We are praying to God, I had been to more than 50 churches, hospital etc but nothing happen.

After 6yrs of waiting my husband sisters started cursing me, calling me all sorts of name that I’m a witch, evil to their family, calling me barren woman, that am a man living inside woman. Even my lovely mother in-law turned against me, I was asked to go back to my father’s house with my spirit of Barrens but my hubby refuse and am not ready to leave him.

I went to church one day before I came back my own properties was outside both my husband sisters standing close to my loads. I was so much humiliated, I was beaten to coma, they poured me bucket of water calling me evil child, ashawo, u want to tie my brother down, u want our family name to vanish.

Thank God for my father in-law who came back, he consoled me and even bless me that I must bear children and I claimed it. I cried to God every morning and night asking him to bless my marriage even with one child either male or female at least to prove to my sisters in-law that am not a man but I believe God will still do it.

In the same year I lost my father in law, I wept I was hoping one day he will carry my children but God knows why. My journey of rejection started again, my mother in-law humiliated me in the day of the burial, that her husband died without seeing his only son children, that I will leave the house for another woman to enter. I cried that day, I was asking God why me? What have I done? I married my husband as a virgin then why am I passing through all these?

After 5days of the burial my hubby changed, I nearly died if not that God was by my side. My Darling, my only hope of living, my first love abandoned me to my fate but I still love him and refused to go. He got married to another lady; the lady was older than me and a friend to my husband’s sisters. I was like a maid to them and as a good Christian I vowed not to go back to my father’s house. Within 3months my husband 2nd wife took inn, waaaaa I swear I was happy at least my husband’s sisters and my mother in-law will be happy.

My mate (2nd wife) was like a god to them, I was humiliated several times by them, bcos of her pregnancy. After some months she delivered a baby girl through CS, everybody was happy including me, but I was not allowed to carry the child. After 2yrs she had d second child a baby girl through CS again but my sisters in-laws are not too happy after the second child even my hubby too. I’m still praying to God about my own too.

Last month, I saw one of my friend who has been married for 12yrs wit a child, I was surprise and I keep asking her how come till she told me what happened and how she was able to conceive.

She went to Bridge Clinic and God answered her prayer, she did IN-VITRO FERTILIZATION (IVF). It means fertilisation of the woman's egg with the husband's sperm out of the body. Subsequently, the embryos are transferred through the cervix into the womb for continued development and hopefully a pregnancy. 

I was so happy, I believe God will still bless me through Bridge Clinic, I went to their clinic located at 1397a Tiamiyu Savage Street, Victoria Island, directly opposite dstv. When I got home I was very happy and I discuss the issue about the clinic with my husband but he doesn't want to hear anything about my inability to conceive again. Infact he told me that he don't have any money. 

I am 34yrs old now and into small business, I need a child of my own, I want to be a mother.
Am calling all Nigerians to help me out go through dis IVF, to break the yoke of 17yrs barrenness for me, to help me with support -- cash and prayers. 

Dont give me cash but if you can go to be the Bridge Clinic in VI, Lagos, and see the Doctor by yourself. I can't afford the money for the IVF, even if is one child am ok. Please someone should out a smile on my face again and God will never let you down. No amount is small.

May God bless you as you read it and am hoping for your support. Thanks!
My Email: ujunwa1976@yahoo.com
My number: 08145193021

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